Close the night with a kiss
You have done the hard work, used your best lines and charmed like a boss. Now the moment you have been waiting for all night, the chance to kiss her.
How do you know when the doors is open? Men fear rejection just as much as anyone else and you don’t want to be slapped in front of your wingmen
Here are our strategy’s to get that kiss.
Plan 1: Look her in the eyes, keep your charm and tell her with a smile “you know how difficult it is to not kiss you right now”.
The response: She is going to appreciate that you not the type of guy who just lunges and hopes for the best. She will either giggle when you say this, or better, respond “why” or “what’s been stopping you”. That is your green light.
Plan 2: This is for the more confident man, and involves turning kissing into a game. Enter a blinking or no laughing competition and very slowly move closer and closer until you noses are touching if she has not laughed or pulled away by this stage, what are you waiting for.
The response: She will either pull away or laugh which means you win the game. Or she will compete and see how close she can make it, which will lead to a kiss and once again your victory.
Plan 3: Play kissing chicken. Say “let see who can resist kissing each other.” Make sure she knows the rule of the game is to NOT kiss. You get in close, but don’t kiss her, remember the point is to see who can get the closest before pulling away. This will work. Ask a girl what the best part of a kiss is, and she will tell you, that moment just before your lips touch. This game allows you to play with that moment and turn up the heat.
The response: Again you both get close and if she pulls away you win. Use your win to tease her. Later you can re-challenge and we promise she won’t let you win as easily the next time.